Marriage and Love in England

October 10, 2022

by Alan Macfarlane.

Max Weber observed long ago that ‘being one of the strongest non-rational factors in human life’, sexual drives are ‘one of the strongest potential menaces to the individual’s rational pursuit of economic ends’. (8) Yet, by a subtle shift, love and sex were domesticated, the force was channelled, and it became one of the central dynamic elements in the capitalist system. Weber saw that as societies became more bureaucratic and ‘rational’, so at the heart of such systems grew an impulsive, irrational and non capitalistic emotion at the level of the individual. Just as he had caught the paradox of otherworldly mysticism leading to capitalistic accumulation, Weber hints at the way in which love marriage lies at the heart of rational capitalism.

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Contents

I THE MALTHUSIAN MARRIAGE SYSTEM

1 Charles Darwin and Thomas Malthus
2 The importance of Malthusian marriage
3 The Malthusian marriage system and its origins

II THE VALUE OF CHILDREN

4 The benefits and costs of children
5 Setting up a separate economic and social unit
6 Children as insurance

III THE PURPOSES OF MARRIAGE

7 Who controls the marriage decision?
8 The purposes of marriage
9 Romantic love

IV THE RULES OF MARRIAGE

10 The duration and durability of marriage
11 Status rules concerning marriage
12 Economic arrangements at marriage
13 Courtship and wedding

V CONCLUSIONS

14 The Malthusian marriage system in perspective

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